I hate seeing shit about fathers having a big ol’ grand warning to boys who want to date their daughter (even if they mention mothers too) because it’s so patriarchal and ‘women are owned by a dominant power’-y
and if you doubt that just think about how you probably haven’t heard one about dating sons
say it with me now
do not fucking tell me someone with abusive parents “had it easy” just because the abuse wasn’t physical or sexual
This counts for abusive partners and abusive “friends” too.